On 11th May 2025, everywhere was flooded with happy Mother’s day wishes. Especially in the social media platforms people expressed their excitements and joy to motherhood. It was good to see how people appreciated their mothers world wide because of what they have done. To me it was more than just a celebration.
It was a time to thank God for the gift of all women. I reflected on why God created a woman. And why did he ordain specific roles to women, particularly in this New Covenant dispensation?
Why did God create a woman
The bible records this way in Genesis 2:20-22 NIV
[20] So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds in the sky and all the wild animals. But for Adam no suitable helper was found. [21] So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and then closed up the place with flesh. [22] Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.
God, in his all wisdom, had a perfect plan for everything he created. This included women and how they will live in this world. He made it clear that he created a woman to help Adam at that time. To help here simply means to give assistance or aid to Adam. According to God, it was not possible for Adam to go about the whole earth alone.
He could not accomplish the commands of God in Genesis 1:28 by himself. So God found it necessary to bring a woman in the picture to help Adam in meeting certain specific roles. This needed to be the trend up to now. Women are supposed to be companions (helpers) to their husbands. That’s the purpose why women were made. But along the way, this woman given by God to Adam is deceived by Satan. She agreed to be used by Satan to disobey what God had said to Adam.
The Fall of man
The Bible says that by that single action of eating the forbidden fruit, man fell. The entire plan of God regarding his creation was interfered with. It was not business as usual. Everything turned to unintended direction. At that point, man knew the difference between good and evil. He decided to follow the evil path. A woman who was supposed to help and joyfully submit to his husband’s direction turns out to be a rival. As the writer notes in Genesis 3:16, her desire will be against her husband’s rule. She will also want to control him. What a sad and sudden turn of things! But what happened next?
Redemption and Restoration
God loved his creation deeply. He didn’t leave mankind in that state of despair and confusion. He instantly promised a time would come when his creation would be saved from Satan’s hand. It would be saved from Satan’s wickedness and be restored to God (see Genesis 3:15).
It took many years for this prophecy’s light to start being visible. During this time, man continued to wander away from God but God kept on pursuing them. Eventually, God came down in human form. He did this to fulfill the promise he spoke about in Genesis 3:15 by destroying sin and Satanic powers over man. He did this on cross of Jesus Christ.
As we speak now, God is in the process of redeeming and restoring his creation to Himself. He has already worked out salvation. He is restoring everything. This includes men’s and women’s roles that took a different direction at the fall of man. And that’s why he has given us his written word to continue restoring us to him. God’s word exists to call us to return to his will.
He is calling all women to obey his commands and return to their role of helping their husbands as it was in the beginning. God now forbids women to control or rule over their husbands as it was before. In fact, God uses the New Testament writers to assist us understand which areas a woman should help her husband. And this will then, in turn, assist in the management of public gatherings, especially in a local church setting. What are these key and sacred callings of womanhood?
Call to Action
Titus instructs in this manner in Titus 2:3-5 ESV,
[3] Older women likewise are to be reverent in behaviour, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, [4] and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, [5] to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.
The above commands display the sacred roles of a biblical woman who desires and strives to do the will of God. And by doing all these, she will have helped her husband as God intended. In fact, the writer says that doing all these roles gives reverence to God. But rejecting and pursuing other roles makes the word of God be mocked.
It’s sad to note that majority of women have left these roles. The current modernization and feminism groupings only present a woman who rejects God given roles. Instead, point them to pursue roles ordained for men. Women have neglected their homes. Children have no one to care, guide and nurture them. Children are left in the hands of strangers. What a painful tragedy we are in!
But the choice is upon women. They must either choose God and what he wants for them. Or, choose what the world presents to them!
Mother’s Day celebrations should be a day to reflect on the God given roles to womanhood. And urgently call all women to obey God’s word and return to their sacred roles. Then God will be revered.
Let us know your reflections on the Mother’s Day holiday.



