What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?
Does it surprise you to see the weird traits?
I happen to have shared many platforms with different people. And it’s certain that where people are, there you must find funny and weird personality traits and characters that becomes nuisance.
When I find myself in a meeting or a group fellowship with a people pleaser person. I always feel for them especially seeing how they struggle to be seen. That’s not all,
They get disappointed when not recognized publicly.
They can do anything to make them visible – be in the limelight. I have seen people indulging in evil and sinful activities just to make themselves relevant and accepted by the current trends.
They can use all they have to please people. I once heard from a “people pleaser person” who happen to be close to me saying that he had used all the resources he had to make a previous event colourful. I had seen this trait in him but this confession further confirmed to me that the event was not as the attendees thought but it was aimed to please them. What a sad outcome to someone working tirelessly to please people.
Does this personality trait issue surprise me even if its a nuisance?
No. It doesn’t surprise me at all. I am a believer in truth and the God’s truth says that man is fallen and from man comes nothing righteous but only evil and wickedness. The root problem is sin. You see this “people pleaser person in the above story”, instead of pleasing God alone, he is busy pleasing people and at the same time actively displeasing God. Which then lands him in more disappointment and adjact despair.
Look dear reader, everyone has that personality trait that is a red flag to someone. Even me I know that I have a trait that people dislikes. One trait can be visible while some invisible. In simple terms. Everyone is guilty of sin. And sin manifest through these weird personality traits in different ways.
Is there hope that personality traits will turn good and perfect?
Yes. In Heaven. But for now as long as we are still living in this evil and fallen world. Sin will be there and weird personality traits will be there. The only difference is this; Those whom God has made alive with Christ and they have received the free gift of eternal life in Christ by faith, their sin have been washed away and they are being transformed day by day by the Spirit of God. Meaning their personality traits are also being transformed likewise. I am a witness of this, my character traits have changed because of the new nature I have and spirit of God that works in me.
But to those who are still outside Christ. They are still in sin bondage and their personality traits are still dark and will even be more darker. But there is hope, the bible say that if you call upon the name of the Lord you will be saved. And when God saves you, you will see a great transformation in all of your life.
